{"id":48963,"date":"2026-06-21T23:28:57","date_gmt":"2026-06-21T20:28:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg"},"modified":"2026-06-21T23:30:10","modified_gmt":"2026-06-21T20:30:10","slug":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24t135919-588-4","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/genel\/35-yasindaki-dul-bir-kadin\/attachment\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24t135919-588-4\/","title":{"rendered":"35 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki dul bir kad\u0131n olarak hayat\u0131m\u0131n"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg'><img width=\"300\" height=\"208\" src=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x208.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-768x532.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg 925w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>35 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir kad\u0131n olarak hayat\u0131m\u0131n en sakin d\u00f6nemlerinden birini ya\u015f\u0131yordum. Ta ki evimdeki bir ar\u0131zay\u0131 tamir etmek i\u00e7in gelen 25 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7 ustayla tan\u0131\u015fana kadar. \u0130\u015fini y\u0131llard\u0131r yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen bu gen\u00e7 adam\u0131n bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerimde hissediyor, ama bunu hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcme yoruyordum. \u0130\u015f bitince \u00fccret almak istemedi, numaras\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p &#8220;Bir \u015feye ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olursa aray\u0131n,&#8221; dedi. Sonra sosyal medya payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131ma herkesten \u00f6nce bakmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Acaba bana ilgi duyuyor muydu, yoksa ben mi yanl\u0131\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum? E\u015fimden ayr\u0131lal\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131l olmu\u015ftu. \u0130nsanlar yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n zamanla al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerler. Belki hakl\u0131yd\u0131lar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben de yaln\u0131z ya\u015famaya, sessiz kahvalt\u0131lar yapmaya, ak\u015famlar\u0131 televizyon kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda uyuyakalmaya al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir g\u00fcn mutfaktaki su tesisat\u0131nda ciddi bir sorun \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Kom\u015fumun \u00f6nerdi\u011fi bir ustay\u0131 arad\u0131m. Kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ki\u015finin bekledi\u011fimden \u00e7ok daha gen\u00e7 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Uzun boylu, d\u00fczg\u00fcn giyimli, temiz y\u00fczl\u00fc bir gen\u00e7ti. &#8220;Merhaba, ben Emre,&#8221; dedi g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek. \u0130\u00e7eri buyur ettim. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken s\u00fcrekli i\u015fine odaklan\u0131yordu ama birka\u00e7 kez g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze geldik. Her seferinde bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 hemen ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yordu. Belki de bana \u00f6yle geliyordu. Sonu\u00e7ta aram\u0131zda on ya\u015f vard\u0131. Ben otuz be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m. O ise yirmi be\u015f. \u0130\u015fini bitirdi\u011finde mutfak eskisinden daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. &#8220;Borcum ne kadar?&#8221; diye sordum. Elini sallad\u0131. &#8220;\u00d6nemli de\u011fil.&#8221; \u015ea\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. &#8220;Olur mu \u00f6yle \u015fey?&#8221; &#8220;Ger\u00e7ekten gerek yok.&#8221; &#8220;Hay\u0131r, eme\u011finiz var.&#8221; G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi. &#8220;Sizden olsun.&#8221; Bu kez ben ne diyece\u011fimi bilemedim. Cebinden telefonunu \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p numaras\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi. &#8220;Kaydedin. Bir sorun olursa g\u00fcn\u00fcn her saati arayabilirsiniz.&#8221; Numaras\u0131n\u0131 kaydettim. O gittikten sonra kendime k\u0131zd\u0131m. Koskoca kad\u0131n olmu\u015ftum. Neden bu kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum? Belki sadece nazikti. Belki de i\u015fini iyi yapan bir ustayd\u0131. Fazlas\u0131 de\u011fildi. Fakat sonraki g\u00fcnlerde dikkatimi \u00e7eken \u015feyler oldu. Sosyal medya hik\u00e2yelerimi payla\u015f\u0131r payla\u015fmaz g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fcyordu grsele ilerleyn devam\u0131 sonraki syfada&#8230;. g\u00f6r.sel \u00fc.zeriiinden 2. say.faya ge.\u00e7iniz&#8230;<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":925,"height":641,"file":"2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x208.jpg","width":300,"height":208,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x208.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-768x532.jpg","width":768,"height":532,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-768x532.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg","width":925,"height":641,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":48962,"source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/69c26e91d9470-640x359-2026-03-24T135919.588-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48963"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48963"}]}}