{"id":50581,"date":"2026-08-14T00:17:29","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T21:17:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg"},"modified":"2026-08-14T00:19:44","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T21:19:44","slug":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-2","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/foto-galeri\/kendinden-kucuk-biriyle-ask-yasayan-kadinlara-hep-kizardim\/attachment\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck biriyle a\u015fk ya\u015fayan kad\u0131nlara hep k\u0131zard\u0131m"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg'><img width=\"224\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-224x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-224x300.jpg 224w, https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg 764w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>O an kulaklar\u0131m u\u011fuldamaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Adam ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 iki yana sallayarak, &#8220;Yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor, sak\u0131n inanma.&#8221; diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Psikoloji<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n \u00e7antas\u0131ndan telefonunu \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Birbiri ard\u0131na foto\u011fraflar g\u00f6stermeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Ayn\u0131 adam&#8230; Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f&#8230; Parmaklar\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fckler&#8230; D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131&#8230; Ailesiyle \u00e7ekilmi\u015f foto\u011fraflar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nefes alam\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Polislerden biri bana d\u00f6nerek sakin olmam\u0131 istedi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Han\u0131mefendi, yakla\u015f\u0131k alt\u0131 ayd\u0131r bu \u015fah\u0131s hakk\u0131nda doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k ihbarlar\u0131 al\u0131yoruz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131m d\u00f6nmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nas\u0131l yani?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Memur derin bir nefes ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Farkl\u0131 \u015fehirlerde \u00f6zellikle yaln\u0131z ya\u015fayan, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f veya dul kad\u0131nlarla ili\u015fki kuruyor. G\u00fcvenlerini kazan\u0131yor. Evlilik vaat ediyor. Daha sonra para al\u0131yor veya almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sanki biri mideme yumruk atm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben bug\u00fcne kadar \u00f6dedi\u011fim b\u00fct\u00fcn yemekleri, tatilleri, k\u0131yafetleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Arabas\u0131n\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 bile birka\u00e7 kez ben yapt\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonunu de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011finde yeni telefonunu da ben alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7birini bana zorla yapt\u0131rmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben isteyerek yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sevildi\u011fime inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n konu\u015fmaya devam etti. Kad\u0131nlara\u00f6zel etkinlikler<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Benden de y\u00fcz binlerce lira ald\u0131. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yap\u0131yoruz diye.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Polisler adam\u0131n telefonunu incelemeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Telefon kilitlenince ba\u015fka bir cihaz \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Me\u011fer cebinde ikinci bir telefon daha varm\u0131\u015f <\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn gizli konu\u015fmalar\u0131n sebebi buydu.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonda onlarca kad\u0131n vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kimisine &#8220;A\u015fk\u0131m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Kimisine &#8220;Hayat\u0131m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Kimisine ise bana s\u00f6yledi\u011fi c\u00fcmlelerin ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;G\u00f6zlerini kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda sadece seni g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 mesaj&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Kelimesi kelimesine&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Sadece isim de\u011fi\u015fiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Dizlerimin ba\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcld\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Koltu\u011fa oturdum.<\/p>\n<p>Adam h\u00e2l\u00e2 kendini kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben kimseyi doland\u0131rmad\u0131m. Onlar bana kendi istekleriyle yard\u0131m etti.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Polislerden biri sert\u00e7e cevap verdi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130nsanlar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 kullanarak para almak da su\u00e7tur.&#8221; BiyolojiBilimleri<\/p>\n<p>Telefon kay\u0131tlar\u0131nda ba\u015fka ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar da \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn beni neden otele g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek istedi\u011fi de ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131da bekleyen iki arkada\u015f\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ben evden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca evi rahat\u00e7a bo\u015faltacaklarm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Pencereden s\u00fcrekli d\u0131\u015far\u0131 bakmas\u0131n\u0131n sebebi de onlar\u0131n gelip gelmedi\u011fini kontrol etmesiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7alanlar ise polislerden \u00f6nce gelen apartman g\u00f6revlisi olmu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Adam a\u00e7\u0131lmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in paniklemi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6revli durumdan \u015f\u00fcphelenince polisi aram\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Polisler ise zaten uzun s\u00fcredir onu takip ettikleri i\u00e7in k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede adrese ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Birka\u00e7 dakika i\u00e7inde kelep\u00e7elendi.<\/p>\n<p>Giderken bana son kez bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben seni ger\u00e7ekten seviyordum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Eskiden olsa bu s\u00f6ze inanabilirdim.<\/p>\n<p>Ama art\u0131k g\u00f6zlerindeki korkunun bana de\u011fil, yakalanm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rebiliyordum.<\/p>\n<p> Kap\u0131 kapand\u0131ktan sonra saatlerce a\u011flad\u0131m. Kap\u0131ve Pencereler<\/p>\n<p>Kendime k\u0131z\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131l bu kadar k\u00f6r olabilmi\u015ftim?<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcnlerce evden \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>O\u011fullar\u0131ma bile anlatmaya utan\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda cesaretimi toplay\u0131p her \u015feyi anlatt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bana k\u0131zacaklar\u0131n\u0131 sand\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flum sessizce yan\u0131ma oturdu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anne, hata yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirsin ama bunun sebebi sevmek istemendi.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck o\u011flum ise elimi tuttu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yaln\u0131z kalman\u0131 istemiyoruz. Ama seni kullanan biri y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kendini su\u00e7lama.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O s\u00f6zler bana ila\u00e7 gibi geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Soru\u015fturma aylar s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Polis beni tekrar ifadeye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Me\u011fer benim gibi tam on iki kad\u0131n daha varm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi evini satm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi emekli ikramiyesini vermi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi ise \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n birikimini.<\/p>\n<p>Ben en az zararla kurtulanlardan biri say\u0131l\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p> Mahkeme g\u00fcn\u00fc kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fuyla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Mahkemelerve Adli Konular<\/p>\n<p>Hepimizin hik\u00e2yesi birbirine benziyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 iltifatlar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 vaatler&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 evlilik s\u00f6z\u00fc&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Sadece isimler de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Mahkeme sonunda uzun s\u00fcre hapis cezas\u0131 ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Salondan \u00e7\u0131karken ilk kez i\u00e7imde ger\u00e7ek bir rahatlama hissettim.<\/p>\n<p>Aradan iki y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi h\u00e2l\u00e2 yaln\u0131z ya\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Ama art\u0131k yaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan korkmuyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131mda yeniden mutluluk var.<\/p>\n<p>Bu mutluluk bir erke\u011fe ba\u011fl\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Eski arkada\u015flar\u0131mla yeniden g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor, seyahat ediyor, kitap okuyor, g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131l\u0131yor ve kendime zaman ay\u0131r\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen aynaya bak\u0131p o g\u00fcnleri hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Kendime sadece tek bir c\u00fcmle s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sevmek insan\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmez; yanl\u0131\u015f insan\u0131 sevmek ac\u0131t\u0131r.&#8221; BiyolojiBilimleri<\/p>\n<p>O ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131mdan sonra \u015funu \u00f6\u011frendim: Bir insan sizi ger\u00e7ekten seviyorsa, \u00f6nce cebinizi de\u011fil, kalbinizi korur. G\u00fcven, ilgi ve fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k tek tarafl\u0131 oldu\u011funda bunun ad\u0131 a\u015fk de\u011fil, s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. O gece kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7masayd\u0131m belki hem birikimlerimi hem de hayat\u0131m\u0131 kaybedecektim. Bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 anlatmam\u0131n tek nedeni ise benim d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm hataya ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmemesini istememdir. Bazen bir kap\u0131y\u0131 cesaretle a\u00e7mak, insan\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtaran en do\u011fru karar olabilir.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":764,"height":1024,"file":"2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-224x300.jpg","width":224,"height":300,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-224x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-150x150.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg","width":764,"height":1024,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":50579,"source_url":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/772036681_29683136391289002_6044067897811098378_n-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50581"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50581"}]}}