{"id":50636,"date":"2026-08-16T11:24:07","date_gmt":"2026-08-16T08:24:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1.jpg"},"modified":"2026-08-16T11:26:07","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T08:26:07","slug":"773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-2","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/foto-galeri\/en-yakin-arkadasim-otizmli-oglumu-yillardir\/attachment\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-2\/","title":{"rendered":"En yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131m, otizmli o\u011flumu y\u0131llard\u0131r"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1.jpg'><img width=\"241\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1-241x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1-241x300.jpg 241w, https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1-768x954.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/773014075_1501858514959305_5902006438308653195_n-1.jpg 824w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 241px) 100vw, 241px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Bir an durdu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130lk geldi\u011finde Mert \u00e7ok sessizdi. Masaya oturuyor, patates k\u0131zartmas\u0131n\u0131 bekliyor ve etraftaki insanlara bak\u0131yordu. Banu bana onun yeni ortamlara al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Fakat zamanla ba\u015fka bir \u015fey fark ettik.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeyi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMert insanlar\u0131 izlemeyi seviyordu. Garsonlar\u0131n nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sipari\u015flerin nas\u0131l al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, masalar\u0131n nas\u0131l haz\u0131rland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dikkatle takip ediyordu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla ona bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSonra?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir g\u00fcn bo\u015f bir tepsiyi eline ald\u0131 ve masalardan birini toplamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Banu \u00f6nce endi\u015felendi. Ama ben ona izin verdim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garson hafif\u00e7e g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMert o g\u00fcn yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fi m\u00fckemmel yapt\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerim dolmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeki neden bana s\u00f6ylemediniz?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Banu istemedi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu cevap i\u00e7imde yeni bir soru do\u011furdu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeden?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garson bu kez do\u011frudan g\u00f6zlerimin i\u00e7ine bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc size umut verip sonra Mert ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olursa \u00fcz\u00fclmenizi istemedi. Ama daha \u00f6nemlisi, Mert&#8217;in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin bir yard\u0131m faaliyeti gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesini istemedi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m daha da artt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe demek istiyorsunuz?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBanu, Mert&#8217;in burada ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bir an nefesim kesildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garson ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130lk ba\u015flarda yaln\u0131zca haftada birka\u00e7 dakika. Pe\u00e7eteleri katlad\u0131, \u00e7atal b\u0131\u00e7aklar\u0131 yerle\u015ftirdi, bo\u015f bardaklar\u0131 mutfa\u011fa ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131. Sonra sipari\u015f numaralar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ben y\u0131llard\u0131r o\u011flumun yaln\u0131zca lokantaya gidip patates k\u0131zartmas\u0131 yedi\u011fini san\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Me\u011fer Mert orada kendine ait k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir d\u00fcnya kurmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>Garson konu\u015fmaya devam etti.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBanu her geli\u015flerinde bize k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ricada bulunuyordu. \u2018Onu normal bir m\u00fc\u015fteri gibi de\u011fil, \u00f6\u011frenmek isteyen biri gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u2019 diyordu. Biz de \u00f6yle yapt\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeki neden b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 benden saklad\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Mert&#8217;in bunu kendi ba\u015f\u0131na ba\u015farmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 e\u011fdim. Bir yandan \u00f6fkeleniyor, bir yandan da duyduklar\u0131m\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunca y\u0131l boyunca bana tek kelime s\u00f6ylemedi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir g\u00fcn Mert&#8217;in size kendisinin anlatmas\u0131n\u0131 bekledi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garson cebinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, eski bir anahtarl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dczerinde lokantan\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck logosu vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu Mert ilk kez tek ba\u015f\u0131na vardiyas\u0131n\u0131 tamamlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ona verdik.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anahtarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 avucuma b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Tam o s\u0131rada arkamdan bir ses geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnne?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6nd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Mert koridorun giri\u015finde duruyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Banu ise birka\u00e7 ad\u0131m gerisindeydi.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade, art\u0131k saklanacak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015f birinin ifadesiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Mert yan\u0131ma geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Elimdeki anahtarl\u0131\u011fa bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu sana m\u0131 verdi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 sallad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBana neden anlatmad\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mert birka\u00e7 saniye sustu.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m o sakin sesiyle konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00fcrpriz olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerim doldu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe zamand\u0131r burada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsun?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cD\u00fczenli olarak yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131ld\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00dc\u00e7 y\u0131l.<\/p>\n<p>O\u011flum \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131ld\u0131r benim haberim olmadan bir i\u015f \u00f6\u011freniyordu<\/p>\n<p>Banu sonunda yan\u0131m\u0131za geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBenden nefret edebilirsin,\u201d dedi. \u201cAma seni kand\u0131rmak istemedim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ona bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBana yalan s\u00f6yledin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ne e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAma bunu Mert i\u00e7in yapt\u0131m. Her \u015feyi sana anlatsayd\u0131m, do\u011fal olarak endi\u015felenirdin. Her geli\u015finden sonra \u2018Nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti? Bir sorun oldu mu?\u2019 diye sorard\u0131n. Mert de \u00fczerinde bask\u0131 hissederdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeki ya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olsayd\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Banu&#8217;nun g\u00f6zleri doldu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cO zaman da yan\u0131nda olacakt\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131 garson s\u00f6ze girdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHi\u00e7 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmad\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mert utanga\u00e7 bir \u015fekilde g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBazen bardak k\u0131rd\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hepimiz g\u00fcld\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>O k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck c\u00fcmle, y\u0131llard\u0131r i\u00e7imde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m korkunun bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Mert&#8217;in kusursuz olmas\u0131na gerek yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>Onun da herkes gibi hata yapma hakk\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Garson bana ba\u015fka bir \u015fey daha anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBug\u00fcn Mert&#8217;in ilk resmi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma g\u00fcn\u00fc. On sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na girdi\u011fi i\u00e7in art\u0131k burada d\u00fczenli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in gerekli plan\u0131 haz\u0131rlad\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mert hemen araya girdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGarson olmak istemiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hepimiz \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe olmak istiyorsun?\u201d diye sordum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir an d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMutfa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek istiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131 garson kahkaha att\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu zaten aylard\u0131r s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>O gece eve d\u00f6nerken arabada uzun s\u00fcre konu\u015fmad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda Mert arka koltuktan seslendi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnne?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEfendim?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBana k\u0131zg\u0131n m\u0131s\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Aynadan ona bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBiraz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBanu&#8217;ya da m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBiraz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sonra g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAma en \u00e7ok kendime k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeden?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc seni h\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocuk gibi korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mert birka\u00e7 saniye sustu.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra bana hayat\u0131m boyunca unutmayaca\u011f\u0131m bir c\u00fcmle s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm anne. Sadece bunu sana s\u00f6ylemenin yolunu bulamad\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerim doldu.<\/p>\n<p>O gece ilk kez Mert&#8217;in gelece\u011fini korkuyla de\u011fil, merakla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi hafta onu lokantaya kendim g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Bu kez Banu yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>Mert \u00f6nl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc takt\u0131, mutfa\u011fa ge\u00e7ti ve i\u015fine ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben ise kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde birka\u00e7 dakika onu izledim.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra gitmek i\u00e7in d\u00f6nd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk kez o\u011flumun pe\u015finden gitmem gerekti\u011fini de\u011fil, onun kendi yolunda ilerlemesine izin vermem gerekti\u011fini anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131karken ya\u015fl\u0131 garson bana el sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben de g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llarca s\u0131r sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck lokantan\u0131n asl\u0131nda o\u011flumun sakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 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